Showing posts with label Partial feminity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Partial feminity. Show all posts

Monday, September 5, 2011

Why always the wrong? Why not the right?

College- a new beginning to life-a new phase-meeting new people-making friends, at least a few-a few of us will be away from home, counting on the people next to us to pamper us like our parents do-missing old friends, crying on the shoulders of the new ones for the same-bunking classes and sitting in the canteen chatting, for the entire day, about God alone knows what-finding your soul mate or probably the worst person you have ever met-fighting, and then making up for everything with a hug-having sleepless nights the day before celebrations, busy preparing for the occasion-busy dressing up the next day, with little or maybe no sleep at all---------.......
Isn't this what college is about? You fight, physically and verbally, but why the hatred? I am questioning the realizations I made today. At my college. In my classroom.

1) Boys will be boys. But is calling someone a loser, hiding behind a screen, and then acting like you have done a fantabolously great job what boys are made out of? *Sorry to all those 'real boys' out there. I really am*.

2) Boys and girls can never be of equal character. As long as boys treat girls like they are just pieces of meat, this world will never have an equal crowd. But can't girls stay together? Or atleast with what is right?

3) People will try head over heels to brain-wash you towards the wrong. But isn't there anything called consciousness to which you answer to at the end of the day when you lie down on your bed? Or do you carry your brain-washing there as well?

4) Boys will never accept their mistakes. Even if the entire world is against them they wouldn't agree that they were wrong. Or is it that they agree but do not have the guts to show it?

5) People would fall back to the feet of those who insulted you to the ultimate level, just to be in the 'gang'. But wouldn't it be so much better to stand alone than be with a group of people with no nerves to agree to the right stuff?

6) People who ask girls to solve their issues are not boys. But what are they?

7) Girls will always listen to boys. Even if the latter are at the negative side. Then what equality are you shouting your throats for?

8) People accuse others to start the entire issue. Why don't they actually go through the entire 'case-study' and then listen and follow what their hearts say, rather than what people around them say?

P.S: Or maybe I already knew all these. I have just started absorbing them. My mistake. I am sorry.